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Monday, February 23, 2009

Brilliant Choices

All of us experience tragedy, unexpected changes and uncertainty numerous times throughout our lives. As these experiences pass through it's how we handle them will make all the difference in the outcome. These events cause us to reevaluate what is important and necessary.

As the outcome of unexpected change transitions into our daily lives we naturally let go of the obvious things and then slowly and intentionally choose to keep the “best”. The question I get asked the most is, “How do you know what is best?”

Here are some tips on how to determine “what is best”.


  1. Pray and ask God what he desires for your life; what His best is for you.

  2. Be willing to listen to the response and be willing to take the next steps based upon what you hear.

Sometimes we don’t hear an answer to the question and there can be many reasons for that. But that is a whole other BIG topic in itself!


One other suggestion that has worked for me; stop doing something you’ve always done. For example, I stopped writing this ezine for 2 months to see how I would feel. What I noticed is that I felt “obligated” to write the ezine, not inspired. I had all kinds of “chatter” in my head about why I “should” write the ezine. “Should messages” can be a sign that priorities are out of line or order.


I encourage you to stop doing something you’ve always done and allow the discovery to guide and direct your next steps to what is “best’ for you. You will notice the changes in this ezine are a reflection of the “best” for me and for you! I know you will benefit from them!

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